Trying To Keep Busy

Waiting is something I have never been good at. Waiting for my first grandson has really been a challenge. I’ve made sure my phone stayed charged, so I wouldn’t miss the call. He was due Sunday, but he didn’t want to make his appearance on time. I guess he wants to make grand entrance.

This weekend to keep busy, on Saturday I made a lemon meringue pie.20160213_184309

On Sunday afternoon, with the help of my youngest son, I planted two huge pots of Spring bulbs. Warmer weather is another thing I have hard time waiting on. Not on the same level as waiting for a grandchild, but you know what I’m getting at: I don’t like to wait.

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I placed empty soda bottles I  the bottom  of the container. Less potting soil will be needed and it makes the planter easier to move.
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Spring bulbs: purple gladiolus, bright yellow day lilys and lily of the valley.
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Peeking out of the soil are the yellow day lilys and pips of lily of the valley. Under the soil, ringed around the pots inner edge are the purple glads.

My middle son, the expectant father, called me this afternoon. The waiting for Brentlee will be over tomorrow, as my daughter-in-law will go to the hospital early in the morning to be induced. Come on Brentlee, Grandmother Mandy can’t wait to meet you!

Tea and Bacon Bits

It is Lent on the church calendar. Mardi Gras was Tuesday (Fat Tuesday) and at my mother’s small Methodist church, to prepare their hearts for Easter, they meet for a meal and to listen to a speaker. Most speakers are pastors from area churches, but sometimes it will be someone in local government. I think that’s where she learned about the recycling program (see Bread Pudding:the Best Kind of Recycling). So, on Mom’s kitchen calendar each square for Wednesday has a short list of what her contribution will be for the week.

My mother is the “Tea Lady” and makes three gallons each week for the Lenten Lunches: two of sweet and one of unsweetened. Last week, Mom made old fashioned tea cakes, too. The kitchen table was covered with these simple, but delicious cookies Tuesday night. The next day she brought home very few tea cakes and only half a pitcher of unsweetened tea.

Later in the month, she’ll make red beans and rice one Wednesday and then on another jambalaya. There probably won’t be left overs on those days. And I will be sad about that. The last Wednesday of Lent all Mom has to take is the tea, of course, and Bacon Bits. I believe they will do a salad bar that day.

The Lenten Lunches foster a connection in the church and in our small Southern community. It’s tradition to do these luncheons and can be counted on like Spring following Winter.

Blessings from the Exile’s Kitchen.14553918598621673971736

 

 

Waiting For Brentlee

This afternoon, my oldest son stopped by where I work. I hadn’t seen him in over a month. It was good to catch up. While we talked, we both got messages from my middle son; his wife is expecting and contractions had started. That was at 2:37. It’s now four hours later and we’re still waiting for Brentlee Gabriel to make his appearance.

To say I am excited just doesn’t do justice to how I feel right now. I cannot wait to hold him for the first time.

Of course, that wheezing pacaderm that followed us around the college campus last August will be showing up at the hospital, while we wait for Baby Brentlee to arrive. The night my middle son Lee was born I never thought that his father and I would be divorced  24 years later. But that is what has happened and as I am excited about my grandson, I am something else about seeing the grampa and his -ahem-

Oh, well. Such is the life of divorce.

Pray for me.

Simple Things Done With Elegance

Fast paced. Rainbows of color. Noise everywhere. Bigger is better. Excess is the choice of the day. Too much to ooh and ahh over can become dizzying. Simple things and getting back to basics can offer up a refreshing pause.

I am not a fancy cook. My Aunt Lina was a beautiful cook, she could do it all in the kitchen. I have a friend that pairs or covers everything in a sauce or a glaze or infuses whatever she cooks. I just cook. Nothing fancy, although I do love to bake.

My first grandson is due in a few days, so for the family shower last weekend, I concentrated on the basics, nothing overboard.

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The theme was an old tried-and-true: rubber duckies! Ernie would have approved, most definitely. Simple moist white cupcakes, covered in light blue butter cream icing, made little individual ponds for miniature ducklings to swim in.

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An antique milk glass cake stand, simple and lovely, displayed the ducky cupcakes.

Easy homemade vegetable dip and an assortment of crackers were the savory compliment to the cupcakes. A trip to the dining room hutch for a pressed glass platter  made the simple dip special. Here’s the recipe:

2- 12 ounce containers of sour cream

2 – packages of Linton instant vegetable soup mix

1/2 teaspoon of garlic powder

1/4 teaspoon of white pepper

Mix all of the above the night before your shower or party. Keep the sour cream containers and refill with your just mixed dip. Overnight in the frig will reconstitute the dehydrated vegetables and meld the flavors and spices. It’s not too strong in flavors, just right. I served this simple dip with crackers for the baby shower, but for this weekend’s super bowl, it would be great with your favorite chips.

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Serve Simple Vegetable Dip in a pretty Depression Glass bowl, nestled in the center of an pressed glass platter filled with crackers.

And of course there was punch. Blue, because we’re having a boy!

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Served in the family punch bowl, Berry Blue Hawaiian Punch, Sprite and Blue Belle vanilla ice cream made a perfect baby blue punch. The mother-to-be said it tasted like cotton candy.

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Homemade baby quilts. Top from Aunt Linda who lives in Virginia and this one I made myself. Chasity seemed pleased with both.

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Baby blessings from the Exile’s Kitchen.

Super Tot Casserole

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Super Tot Casserole

(I wrote this recipe several years ago, after listening to the JT Show on Supertalk MS. J.T. Williamson was a radio host in the middle of the day and I listened to his show while at work. He often gave recipes out on Fridays. This casserole is one of his recipes and during the winter months, it has become a favorite in our house. Sadly, J.T. passed away this weekend. Prayers for his family. He will be so greatly missed.

August 2, 2021)

I heard about this recipe on the radio this week, but my hands were busy and I couldn’t write it down. So, I looked on line and decided to doctor the recipes I found on the internet. If you’re a meat and potato kinda person, this casserole is for you.

Ingredients:

1 pound lean ground meat

Seasoning- salt, pepper, Cajun if you would like

2 tablespoons Worcester shire sauce

Couple tablespoons of minced onion

1 can of cream of mushroom soup

1 cup light sour cream

1 cup shredded cheddar cheese

Enough tator tots to arrange on top

What to do:

Preheat oven to 375°

Brown the ground meat, drain fat and mix in Worcester shire sauce, onion and seasoning. Placed cooked meat into the bottom of a medium sized casserole dish.

In a small bowl mix together the cream of mushroom soup and sour cream. Spread this mixture over the top of the meat. On top of this, evenly sprinkle with the shredded cheese.

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The last layer is the tator tots. You could dump them all over the top haphazardly, but why not make it pretty? Lay them side by side in concentric circles.

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Now, isn’t that pretty? Bake at 375° for thirty minutes or until the potatoes are golden brown.

Are you wondering how I tweaked the recipe? Well, I added the sour cream to the soup layer. Try it. It adds a great tangy kick to this classic casserole.

Enjoy. Blessings from the Exile’s Kitchen.

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Super Tot Casserole: perfect on a cold winter night.

Bread Pudding: the Best Way To Recycle

In our little community, in our little part of the southwest corner of Mississippi, there is voluntary recycling. Which really means sorting the trash is a pain. There is a collection spot in town and you’re expected to catorgorize your refuse and then take it for deposit. I must admit that I am a bit passive aggressive and conviently do not remember to peel off the lable from the orange juice container, rinse it and dry it, blah, blahblah, blah, blah.

My mother heard a lady in local government give a talk to her church group about the importance of recycling and saving the planet, and the salamanders on the Natchez Trace, and the baby seals in Alaska, and keeping tar balls out of the Gulf of Mexico and on and on and on. Mom has become an advocate of recycling. Somehow, if Mom seperates her trash while living in a tiny little town with a population of less than 4000, trees in the Amazon will be saved.

“Oh, did I throw that cereal box away? Nope, I can’t fish it out of the abyss of the trash can. There it will stay until the guys with the big truck circle the neighborhood on Wednesday morning.”

I told you- I am a bit passive aggressive.  I refuse to gift wrap the refuse. Sorry, Mom. Sorry to any tree huggers reading this, too. Take your peecan to the woods and count the pecan trees. Come on, smile. You take things too seriously.

It really hasn’t been that long ago out in the country (where I lived for 29 years) that weekly trash pickup became the norm. You seperated your tin cans from all other garbage and dumped them into a big hole dug on the back of your property.(I do believe I heard all you environmentalists gasping with your appalled sensibilities.) Read on about rural life. Paper, plastic and cardboard all went into a 50 gallon drum to be burned. Dirty disposable diapers were burned too. Eweee! (Now, you know if I won’t rinse a used orange juice container I was not going to rinse out a used cloth diaper!) If the weather was wet or windy, the trash stacked up in a storage room till it became more trash burning friendly. Ah, life in the country.

More than once trash fires caused raging forest fires. Our neighbors burned up acres of pine trees on my ex-husband’s parents’ land, and they didn’t learn their lesson till my now dearly departed father-in-law went and had a set to with them. I believe he gifted them with a trash barrell of their very own. A few years after that incident, I was called for jury duty and one of the lawyers asked if anyone had ever had property damage due to another’s  negligence. I raised my hand and explained what had happened with The Trash Fire That Had Gotten Away and  potential juror #12  (I) was excused.

Segway-

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The only way or thing I don’t mind recycling is stale bread into a family fave: Bread pudding. My grandmother made this with her week old bread and the smell of butter, egg, sugar and cinnamon filled the whole house. For this mornings breakfast, I used stale hamburger buns to make my grandmother’s recipe. It is the best kind of recycling.

Ingredients:

8 hamburger buns, but any week old bread ( free of mold) can be used

1 1/2 cups milk

1 teaspoon vanilla

3/4 cup sugar

4 eggs

1 stick butter

Cinnamon

What to do:

Preheat oven to 375°.

Tear the buns into bite sized pieces and scatter evenly into a casserole  dish. Melt butter and pour evenly over the torn pieces of buns. Sprinkle with cinnamon, little or a lot, it’s your choice. In a one quart pot, pour in milk and bring to just about boiling, turn fire off, add sugar, vanilla and stir till sugar disolves.

Crack eggs in a small bowl and whisk till light yellow. Temper the eggs by pouring a little the hot milk mixture into the eggs and whisking together. Pouring the eggs directly into the milk would cook the eggs. You don’t want that. So temper the eggs first, before pouring them all into the hot milk. Then pour combined mixture over the buttery cinnamon bread pieces.

Place in the middle of your preheated oven and bake for about 30 minutes. The pudding will puff up while baking and the top gets crusty, thanks to the butter and sugar. Test to see if the pudding  is through baking by inserting a clean knife in the center. If the knife comes out clean, remove from the oven. If it doesn’t come out clean, bake a few more minutes.

Serve warm right out of the oven with coffee. A sprinkling of powdered sugar is nice. Go ahead; gild that lily.

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The butter and sugar make the top of the bread pudding divinely crusty. Ooh yum!